Sunday, August 22, 2010

=)

I came across this article,
written by a guy who is currently having a long distance relationship,
noted his perception towards a long distance relationship.
It was so true yet so hard to achieve,
how many of them actually
succeed through all the obstacles
and finally come to an happy ending,
and how many of them actually
lose to the distance.
Article copied from facebook,

各位亲爱的读者:

当你看到这封信的时候,你多半和我一样,都在谈着一段远距离的恋爱。
我们彼此身同感受,在你身边热恋的情侣或许看不透我们谈远距离恋爱当中的甜酸苦辣,有时候还会嫉妒我们的自由。没有伴侣在身边,是否真的是我们享受的那一种别人羡慕的“自由”?
答案大概只有我们知道、了解、深刻体会。
很多人会问我们,谈远距离恋爱辛苦吗?
大多数的时候,我们都是微笑着点了一点头。
他们会继续问:那为何当初选择在一起呢?
我们会反问自己:为什么呢?,可是我哦们都了解感情这个奇妙的化学物,随时可以氧化、催化、起着不可思议的化学作用。没有时间与空间的绝对对位,就正如问这道问题的那些朋友一样。

我们选择了自己的感情,忠于它,并坚持着不放手。
不管距离多遥远,其实道理都是一样的。
只是,遥远的距离终究真的是一个需要跨越的障碍。
我们见面的时间比别人少得可怜,我们能够进行的计划一直搁在那边、等着遥遥无期的安排,我们一起坚守的承诺,会因为彼此的心动摇,而随时瓦解。
这样的恋爱,并不是每个人能够承受的。

很多时候听到身边一些朋友的抱怨:哎呀,在一起生活挺麻烦的。每天还会吵个不停。
我们听了很是生气,因为我们想要多看自己的伴侣一面的机会都没有,更不要说是和他们吵架。
我们和伴侣不能常常见面,两三个月见一次是家常便饭的事;他回来了,也不一定24小时和你粘在一起,他平均地把时间分配给家人、朋友,最后才把剩下的那一点留给你。
我们说话的机会很少,通过网上聊天、手机通电、简讯保持联络,顶多只能保得住感情的一点余温;我们都知道感情是需要时间投资的,有些时候,即使通话费用高了一些、网上连线差了一些,只要能够多听听他的声音、多看一看他的画面,已经是一种服气了。

就因为距离的问题,我们似乎把自己的恋爱条件降得很低了。
我们不要求常常见面,能够多看你一眼、陪我吃一个晚餐,或者一部电影的时间就好。
我们不要求每一个晚上抱着一起入眠,给我一个晚上聆听我对你三个月以来的思念就好。
我们不要求在假日的时候,能够牵着手一起去各地旅行,只要求彼此到哪里都告诉一声就好。
我们不要求未来的我们要在那里定居下来、要过怎样的生活,给我一个晚餐的时间,让我为你烹调一餐,让你尝尝我的手艺,让我享受片刻有你在的家的感觉是怎样就好。

距离,原本就是我们必须要面对的问题,可它不是一个难题、谜题。
活生生摊在你面前,要你跨过去的,其实,不是距离的问题,是你心灵的障碍。
我们害怕别人质疑我们的坚持、我们惊慌自己的伴侣不够忠诚、我们迷失于自己的选择,悔恨自己当初下的这个决定。

读者们,
送你们四个“不”,它就像一个小锦囊,随身携带,当你面对这样的疑难的时候,拿出来好好领悟一番。

不埋怨、不放弃、不多想、不质疑。

每一个人都有自己的诠释,对于以上十二箴言也一样。好好地去体会吧,你最后发现,原来消除了心灵障碍,你所看见的就是他的好。
我们心灵都比别人坚强,因为我们接受了一段远距离的恋爱。
加油儿,我们一起向远距离迎战!

The one that i couldnt agree more,
距离,原本就是我们必须要面对的问题,可它不是一个难题、谜题。
活生生摊在你面前,要你跨过去的,其实,不是距离的问题,是你心灵的障碍。
我们害怕别人质疑我们的坚持、我们惊慌自己的伴侣不够忠诚、我们迷失于自己的选择,悔恨自己当初下的这个决定。

I guess what matter the most is the faith
that the couple have for each other,
and last but not least,
love which conquer evrything.

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Past

Recently,
the term past bugged me like nobody business.
Certainly, evryone have past,
ugly past,unmentioned past,unforgettable past,
positive one and the negative tagged along too.
For the past one year,2009,
im still the fresh and young 18,
freshly graduated from high school and
stepped in college life for the first of my life time.
New things,new experience,interesting life,
nevertheless,i've encountered endless drama,
theatrical love life and relationship,
numbers of crush,aha, and last but
not least dissapointing and depressing
time as well.
I used to have a dissipated life,
or a better word,rebellious perhaps.
I live in my own way without
fearing the judgement of other people.
In other's eye, it might be a little
out of track and unacceptable thou.
But, arent life is all about making
mistake and learning from them?
In my view,do what u want
and live no regret when you are young,
young as in 18, the time
when u make mistake and try many new things,
and after all those chaos u've been through,
u will eventually get bored of it and grow.
I cant change my past nor erase it,
it was never a blank paper and it will never be,
it was stained with the fact that
its the past that made me who am i now.
I can only do it better from now.
Im demanding for a change for myself,
to a better AWM.
The feeling contradict me,should i change,
or should i stay ?

Monday, August 16, 2010

FML hard.

OMG.
i had just checked my attendance for one my subject
this semester..i got only 37 percent for it.
which means im in high potential of getting bared
from the final exam.
fark.the reason why i skiped the class so often and terribly
was because it was scheduled on 8am in the morning on Monday.
The time when i get back home,i will only be back on monday
noon most probably,coz no one is willing to send me back on sunday
unless my housemate are back at the same time and
he can give me a lift.unfortunately things arent as
smooth as we always wanted it to be!
gahh..There are always a solution to the problem
which is by taking bus,but,my parents
seems unwilling to let me do so,at the same time,
they think that im not ready to drive to melaka yet.
sounds great,i got a car,but i cant use it,
i hav to take bus if i really left with no choice.
Supposingly my dad will fetch me whenever i wan to
go home as his working site was at Senawang which
is only 40minutes drive to melaka.
But,havin him to fetch me evry time i wan to go back
is quite tiring,and he had this backache problem too.
One more thing, when i stayed without going home
for more than two weeks,they make noise,
when i go back almost evryweek , they make noise too,
not that i go back for fun,
i only go back when something is up.=.=''
And fml, i have to go back home this weekend too,
coz i got a body checkup appointment on friday,
a bday dinner to attend on friday night,
brothers bday celebration on saturday,
kevan's bday on saturday night.GREAT.
and two presentation on MONDAY !
(THANKS to the lecturer who had postponed
my already PREPARED english presentation
that supposed to be today, i got my mum send
me back here early in the morning,
fark)
AND ONE MORE THING, the attendance that had
just shocked
me with the red colour highlight warned me that
monday class on 8am must be attend
no matter what shit happen!
Because there are only few classes
left till final!
Which mean, i hav to fly back to melaka
this sunday.
Not that i cant take the bus,
i got freaking lots of things to shift
coz im not goin back on the following week!
FML * 100000000000000!
im so stressed up. T.T

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Young and hawt always =)

Last friday we celebrated my mum belated bday at Tai Thong.
Well, bday gathering is very common for our family members
as most of our family members celebrates their bday altogether
Even though sometimes it was just a small celebration,
as in a gathering in grandma house, singing bday song
and blowing a cake, it meant alot to our family members,
Its a must for bday to be celebrated for us.
So, evry month we have different members celebrating their bday.aha.
Let the pictures speak shall we ?








well arent my mom young and pretty?guess how old is she?aha =)

Monday, August 2, 2010

Whats in me.

LeeVee was true about that phrase,
girls used their life to pursue the so called happiness,
but the more they indulge in it, the more insecure they feel.
Hah,i guess thats a serious problem guys have to deal with.
They try their best to impress the girl,
fullfill her wish and dream, do evrything she want
just to make her happy, but still have to be doubt by the girl he love.
What i wanted to say is, girls dont feel insecure for no reason,
girls dont lose their temper and being suspicous
for no reason, at the same time, they dont
lose confident on the men they love for no reason too.
I cant promise that i will not behave like that one day,
because i always thought that its the guy responsibilites
to make the girl feel as safe and secure as she can.
I am seriously afraid to fall,coz i dont know
how hard it will be
and i dont know whos goin to catch me this time.
Enough of all the emo-ness,
its all because deep down inside,
im Falling so hard for u,
awww.....=(
its been 4months since im attached,
yet i barely know how he feels,
it kinda chill me to the bone and it sucks.
Well, still i cant deny that he is good to me,
i guess im just too demanding.
I will still love you no matter
what the consequences will be ♥


Love,
W.M